We are all gifts to each other on this journey. We are the pioneers forging the way to help others behind us. May all of us feel the love that is the very essence of life, as the search for help to feel alive and well continues.
The last few days have been extremely sad. On Saturday, there were 3 deaths on the train tracks, and one of them, a man in Fremont, was someone I knew, and a close friend to many of my friends. I’ve been in shock and have been extremely saddened by this news.
To assume what other people are thinking or feeling without asking them is to invite misunderstanding. Just as disastrous is to assume other people know what we want or need without our telling them. Many potentially good friendships and marriages perish because of our false assumptions and our lack of honest communication.
Do we assume others can’t live without us or wouldn’t know what to think …or feel unless we told them? Do we take for granted that “silence means assent?”
Do we assume others don’t have time for us, or don’t care about us, if they don’t call or go out of their way to talk to us? Do we think others can read our minds without our ever opening our mouths? Since we can only assume the same limited or distorted thoughts of others that we have of ourselves, we each need to take the initiative to ask probing questions and give honest responses in our relationships.
TODAY I will not make the mistake of projecting my feelings onto others. I will initiate honest and open communication.